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Editor's note: Ellis Anderson is a freelance writer and photographer living in Bay St. Louis, Miss. Her new book, Under Surge, Under Siege, published by University Press of Mississippi, is the 2010 winner of the Eudora Welty Book Award.

Diaspora — the movement, migration, or scattering of a people away from an established or ancestral homeland. — Merriam-Webster

BAY ST. LOUIS, Miss. — “Diaspora” is not a word I used before Katrina.  In fact, I don’t even remember hearing it spoken on the Mississippi Gulf Coast in those days before the hurricane sucked our towns into the sea. That tragic phenomenon of displacement had no bearing on our lives — how could it? Our communities ran together along those 60 miles of coastline like a series of seaside Mayberrys. Connections between people seemed securely knotted, strands of pearls that shone with the luster of history and fellowship. 

Then in August 2005, in the course of a single morning, Katrina severed the threads that bound us. The pearls of our lives went flying in all directions, as if racing across a polished ballroom floor. To gather each and every one and then string them together again would have been impossible. 

How many people never came home? According to estimates, more than a million people in three states were displaced by Katrina — a million souls abruptly forced out of familiar surroundings and plunked into homes of friends or relatives or into hastily fashioned emergency centers across the country.

Many eventually found their way back to their former neighborhoods, yet since official population figures don’t take into account new people who have been drawn to the Gulf Coast since the storm, there’s no way to gauge how many residents left for good. But between my town of Bay St. Louis, Miss., and our sister city of Waveland, Miss., it appears that at least a third of our pre-storm population has settled elsewhere, according to U.S. Census figures.*  That’s around 5,000 folks, in a radius of just a few miles.

We’ve redefined the boundaries of our communities to include those who were forced by circumstance — or choice — not to return. We may be scattered, but the Internet has helped mitigate the long distance between many of us. Our former residents often keep in touch through e-mail and phone calls, or catch up during their occasional pilgrimages home to visit with friends and gorge on shrimp po’-boys and gumbo.  They might reside in Tennessee or New York or Oregon, but many subscribe to the coast papers or watch newscasts on their computers. Some still participate in civic life by cheering our progress or contacting officials about hot issues. Some have even imported the coast’s Mardi Gras tradition to their new communities.

That’s astonishing, considering that there were no farewell parties or promises to keep in touch when this unprecedented mass exodus occurred. The wrenching suddenness of the upheaval denied us all the small comfort of closure. Folks we had known and lived next to for years simply vanished, a few forever. Like the elderly woman who lived across the street from my house — the one I chatted with as she collected her mail. She evacuated before the storm and since her house was severely damaged, she never returned. I’m not even certain she’s still alive.

So on Aug. 29, the fifth anniversary of Katrina, former residents dispersed across the country will join those of us on the coast, at least in spirit, in marking the event that changed our lives forever. Wondering how my displaced friends were adjusting five years out, I checked in with more than two dozen of them — all from the Bay-Waveland area — e-mailing them a pointed and personal list of questions. Nineteen replied immediately, the answers whizzing back through cyberspace as they snapped up the chance to share their thoughts. A slow typist in Florida even hand-wrote her comments on five sheets of paper and paid for overnight delivery.

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Some respondents have relocated just miles away from the shoreline, while others wound up outside Mississippi altogether. Without exception, each expressed a yearning for their former lives on the coast, even if they’ve found contentment elsewhere. What did they miss most?  Family and friends topped each list by far, with the mainstays of local culture — laid-back lifestyle, food and scenic beauty — following close behind.

A man now living in Jackson, Miss., wrote, “It was the place and life I had sought since childhood. I miss just about everything, most all the time.” Artist Lori Gordon built a new home 50 miles north, but spends time in Bay St. Louis, where she sells her art. “I miss the feeling of being so intimately connected with the rhythms of life that came with living next to the Mississippi Sound … the wonderful smell, the cries of the seagulls, and the feel on my skin of those warm Gulf waters which made me feel like I was a complete human being.”

The decision to relocate was wrenching for a number of friends, but some responses echoed Dr. Deb Gross: “Because my home and business were totally washed into the sea, I didn’t have to make any decision about it. There was nothing left.” Another woman observed, “I had moved away from a lot of places, but I have never had a town move away from me.”

Four of my respondents had become embroiled in bitter battles for insurance settlements, sometimes lasting years and accelerating their decision to move on. For a few, the bizarre circumstances of everyday life after Katrina propelled them to resettle elsewhere. A lawyer writing from North Carolina described how she finally threw in the towel and left Bay St. Louis for good when the sewage system of her FEMA trailer backed up in the middle of the night. “I threw my poor dog into the car to keep him from getting into any of the horrible mess, then starting tossing into it anything not yet touched by the growing cesspool. By 8 am I was calling FEMA, telling them ‘your keys are on the propane tank, your trailer's full of shit, and it's all yours now, babycakes.’”

Those who remained on the Gulf Coast apparently respected the decision of the emigrants.  Only three out of the 19 ex-pats reported any negative reactions from former neighbors, and those few felt that time had smoothed any small wrinkles of resentment. Empathy ruled the day. Peggy Dutton observed, “there was no virtue attached to staying and no vice involved in leaving … People made the best decisions they could in light of their individual circumstances.”

But as anyone impacted by Katrina will testify, making major life decisions when sorrow and shock have scrambled your brains is a titanic undertaking. After Mark Guest and his wife found only a savaged lot where their house had once stood, they eventually settled in Asheville, N.C.  Mark wrote that “the initial confusion and guilt associated with our decision to leave or to rebuild was compounded by post-traumatic stress.”

Although few of my ex-pat friends used the technical name, all referred to some sort of psychological distress, including survivor’s guilt — something Deb Gross, as a psychiatrist, was able to identify. “Any comfort or pleasure or basic necessity,” she wrote, “brought both gratitude and lacerating thought of what all of you who were still there were going through.”

When asked about emotional recovery, one friend wryly queried, “What recovery?”  Four of the letters seemed to convey a serious continuation of the grieving process. However, the rest showed a hard-won acceptance of the situation as friends detailed the positive aspects of their current lives. A widow reported creating a covey of friends by volunteering in her new Florida community. Several had switched careers or discovered the opportunity to pursue long deferred dreams. A tone of assimilation ran through the e-mail, with one man believing that his new city “recognizes that the Katrina evacuees have added to the dynamics of the community.”

The final question I asked my ex-pat friends: Do you ever dream or scheme of coming back to the coast, or have you rooted in your new home?  Again, another mixed bag. “My interest does not fade. We’ve not given up on having a weekend retreat to use for the rest of our lives.”  One former full-time resident now divides his time between Jackson and his new Bay St. Louis home, which stands on the site of the one Katrina devoured. While on the coast, he savors the signs of recovery: “I love to watch all the beauty coming out of the devastation.”

The exiles who have no plans to return cite factors like astronomical insurance rates, age and fear of future storms. “As much as I would love to return, I know that I cannot,” wrote one.

“It will never be the way we remember it and emotionally, I’m not ready to cope with the changes.” That  remark came from a mentor as well as a friend, and during the past five years, I’ve repeatedly urged her and her husband to at least visit. Sure, we’re still under construction, but we’re rebuilding on the old bones, I’ve told her. Yes, it’s changed, but we’re stronger now and more beautiful than ever before! You’ll be pleasantly surprised, I promise! Besides, so many still hold you dear in their hearts and would love to hug you again.

Each time they decline, I tell myself to be patient. The important thing is that they understand a jubilant welcome will always await them. The threads between us still exist. And as I read again the letter of Deb Gross, I think of the ancient Greek origin of the word that once I never used: The scattering of seeds.

“Bay St. Louis is the home of my heart,” writes Deb.  “All I can do is be grateful for what I had once upon a time and use that grace to live fully in the life and place where I find myself now …  Bloom where you got blown.”

* U.S. Census estimated population figures: Combined population of the two cities in 2005 was 15,479. In 2009, 14,105. It’s important to note that the 2009 figures reflect annexations by both cities in 2007 — areas that contained around 4,000 people at the time of the 2000 census.

Follow coverage of Hurricane Katrina and the recovery in our Katrina: Five Years Later section.

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    BRIAN WILLIAMS, anchor (New Orleans): Of course, Katrina didn't just hit New Orleans . It hit the entire gulf hope -- Gulf Coast. Among other places, it clobbered Mississippi to the east of us here. Then Rita came along a month later. There, like here, things are better in some ways, not as good in others. We all made many trips there to cover the damage. Our own Ron Mott spent a lot of time in Mississippi following the storm, and in the year since. He is with us from there tonight in a community that became special to many of us. Ron , good evening.

    RON MOTT reporting: Brian , good evening to you. As you mentioned, Mississippi got clobbered by Hurricane Katrina , especially here in Waveland . And even though they were quick to pick up the pieces after the storm, five years later the coast is still far from whole. In many ways, Mississippi took the knockout punch from Katrina , a devastating one-two combination of wind and storm surge that essentially leveled the coastline.

    Ms. JANE SMOLENSKY: I wasn't scared. Were you scared? I think you were scared.

    Mr. LOUIE SMOLENSKY: I might've been scared.

    MOTT: Louie and Jane Smolensky of Waveland shared their town's loss and hope with us in '05.

    WILLIAMS: But if there's no here here, what do you do?

    Ms. SMOLENSKY: They're going to rebuild. Everybody's going to rebuild. So it had to be like up to here.

    MOTT: They've since turned their once-flooded house back into a home, but it hasn't been easy.

    Mr. SMOLENSKY: It was difficult times, but we hung in there and the family got stronger. Our friends got stronger. The community's getting stronger. And so this is home.

    MOTT: In all, 238 people died in Mississippi ; more than 28,000 homes were damaged or destroyed here, leaving some 5,000 families still without permanent housing even today. And despite spending roughly $4 billion in federal funds, many empty lots and challenges remain, though the governor praises the rebuilding effort.

    Governor HALEY BARBOUR (Republican, Mississippi): The spirit and character of the people of Mississippi is what carried us through. They weren't looking for anybody to blame. They weren't whining or moping. Mississippians aren't into victimhood. Mississippians just did what they had to do.

    MOTT: Take the police department of Pass Christian ...

    Offscreen Voice: Whoa, it's getting bad.

    MOTT: ...whose officers had to shoot the glass out of the library doors when floodwaters threatened to trap them inside. How much do you think about that day?

    Chief JOHN DuBUISSON (Pass Christian, Mississippi, Police Department): Not that much. But every now and then , just riding around town and seeing what's not here now, it gets depressing.

    MOTT: Yet every day, it seems, there's something new to celebrate.

    Chief DuBUISSON: This is going to be the patrol room.

    MOTT: For the police, like the Smolenskys and many others before them, homecoming is finally reality, a reality five long years in the making. From ruin to recovery, a resounding, if not exhausting, test of faith and mettle taken one day at a time .

    Reverend HAROLD ROBERTS (Episcopal Church of the Redeemer): Where do you go when it's all gone? How you get through these crises is just trying to do one thing each day, and then take a look back at the end of the week. That worked. That really worked.

    MOTT: In addition to all the property losses here, they also lost a lot of jobs; and a recent study shows that they have yet to fully recover on that

    front as well. Brian: Ron Mott in Waveland , Mississippi . Ron , thanks. And our best to our friends in that

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