You’re following all the advice on simplifying your digital life. You turned off notifications. You bought an old-school alarm clock and banished your phone from your bedroom. You programmed your do-not-disturb hours so only your closest contacts get through after hours.
And yet, that shiny little box grabs your attention, again and again and again. Did anyone like your Instagram photo? Are we supposed to get snow this week? Who’s in for Friday night happy hour?
When Newport tested his digital declutter with 1,600 volunteers, many of them got back into reading, knitting, sports leagues like ultimate Frisbee and basketball, community groups, woodworking, writing poetry, and creating art.
“A lot of people were surprised to discover how much digital technology had pushed analog activities out. They were really excited to rediscover how much they enjoyed going to the library and coming home with a stack of books,” he says. “High-quality leisure is a really big upgrade over low-quality digital streams.”
High-quality leisure is a really big upgrade over low-quality digital streams.
He says that this transition tends to be easier for older people than for younger people. That’s because older people have histories with these activities. They didn’t have a digital life as children or young adults.
A lot of younger people have always been immersed in the digital life, so without their technology they are left with a void. They have to experiment to figure out what offline activities they enjoy.
Think about how and when you will use technology, based on your own values. Do you need to scroll through Facebook so your college roommate knows you “liked” the photo of her baby? Maybe you could call her. Or maybe you could plan a visit with her and her baby.
Here are some ways people have focused their technology use to the activities they value while eliminating the mindless scrolling and browsing:
Digital artists cut their Instagram feed to a small number of artists they admire and schedule a regular time to view their work.
People in community-based Facebook groups bookmark the group page so they can jump straight to that group’s posts and activities without scrolling through their whole Facebook feed.
People who find the news triggers anxiety check headlines just once a day, or less often, or listen to the news on NPR for a short time.
Social media addicts delete the apps from their phones and only check their feeds from their computers.
People who check their phones during the night give themselves phone curfews, putting their phones away from, say, 9 p.m. to 7 a.m.
One woman bought herself a watch, after she realized that she often turned to her phone simply to check the time, then got sucked in to various sites and apps.
Newport notes that a lot of people struggle with this challenge. He says those who succeed see it as a declutter, rather than a detox. “If you treat it like a detox, cleanse, or break you’ll almost certainly slide back. Detox isn’t useful without a systematic plan for change,” Newport says.
If you see the 30 days as a break, it gets hard to keep up your motivation. If you plan to go back to your old habits, why take a break at all?
“It’s like decluttering a house. You don’t just randomly throw out stuff. You take everything out and then see what you need. You clear everything out, and build it back up from scratch,” Newport says.