We're full swing into 2015, with millions around the world proclaiming: “New year, New me!” A new year offers a clean slate for people to forget the transgressions of 2014, and move forward towards prosperity. This march towards success can’t occur if you don’t correct the habits that hindered your progression, especially on the dating scene. No need to worry, because I’m here to offer seven dating resolutions to turn the tide in your love life!
Remember the plethora of articles that doomed (and trolled) black women to a life of solitude? Throw that out the window! Don’t let numbers or past experiences block you from experiencing better days with better companions.
If your dating life has been bleak, you will feel inclined to compromise in your requirements for a potential lover. If you lower your standards, you will regret that decision sooner or later. Instant gratification will never replace consistent success.
The bars, clubs and other establishments where you look for some action haven’t worked to this point, so it’s time to expand your horizons! Places of worship, fitness centers, networking events and even the grocery store have a reputation for serendipitous summits with future lovers.
Smartphones, tablets, and computers have brought the world to our fingertips. Between mobile apps like Tinder and sites like BlackPeopleMeet.com, you increase your pool of prospective mates, thus increasing your chances of a good match!
Getting set up on possible dates by friends has occurred since the dawn of man. We have friends who “knows someone nice and would love for us to meet them”, so why not see what they can offer! Referrals have worked for me in the past, and with a CREDIBLE ally (whose taste you trust), it can work for you too.
All of the above may be actions that feel foreign to you, but you need to try something new. The old ways haven’t worked, and trying those techniques again… well Einstein would like to have a word with you. Follow these resolutions and stick to them! Step out of your comfort zone and have confidence that 2015 will launch you into a better dating life.