By Jessica Littles

Ten years ago, host and social entrepreneur Bevy Smith became known for her dinner parties in New York, which she called “Dinners with Bevy.” In 2008, Smith, a Harlem native, was unemployed and looking for a way to use the connections she had accumulated through years of work experience in luxury fashion and journalism. Her dinner parties connected black artists with mainstream fashion brands and allowed her to flex her muscles as a hostess and an influencer.

“I’m really interested in the curation of the dinner party,” she told NBCBLK. “Dinner parties should be a center for exploration.”

Bevy Smith, from center, mingles with guests at "Dinner With Bevy" hosted by P&G's My Black is Beautiful to kick off Essence Music Festival with community partners Black Girls Rock and UNCF in New Orleans on July 5, 2012.Cheryl Gerber / AP Images for P&G file

“The reason why my dinner parties are successful is because I’m really actively interested in people and I’m interested in diverse types of people. So at my dinner parties, you’ll have different age ranges, sexual orientation, traditionally have people from different professions.”

Smith is continuing a long tradition of using dinner parties as a cornerstone for curating black joy, one of the greatest themes in black history. For black Americans, that joy is rarely euphoric. Throughout history, it is often juxtaposed against some memory or experience of trauma or oppression. During slavery, Christmas was the holiday that slaves often looked forward to the most. It was a time of the year when owners temporarily treated their slaves kindly — if only to reinforce slave mentalities — and slaves found a way to strengthen their bond with one another by giving gifts, playing games and throwing “dinner parties.” Despite the dire circumstances, they still found a way to celebrate, and that practice has continued for centuries.

In 1926, the poet Countee Cullen wrote in "From the Dark Tower:" “We shall not always plant while others reap. The golden increment of bursting fruit. Not always countenance, abject and mute, that lesser men should hold their brothers cheap.” Cullen, a Harlem native and a patron saint of the Harlem Renaissance, wrote the poem about the hardship, hope and beauty of being black after Reconstruction, but before the civil rights movement.

During this time, Cullen’s friend, Madam C.J. Walker’s daughter and heiress to her fortune, A’Lelia Walker, hosted soirees in her townhouse on 136th Street in Harlem. Walker named the townhouse’s party space The Dark Tower, after Cullen’s poem, and turned the place into a space of abundance and fellowship.

She attracted millionaires and artists from all over the city, who would gather for parties that were as “crowded as the New York subway at the rush hour,” poet Langston Hughes wrote in his autobiography. Walker was crowned the “joy goddess of Harlem” by Hughes, and The Dark Tower was not just a meeting place during the Renaissance, but also a center for black joy, a microcosm of artistry and grace. The parties were also known for being a safe space for queer people, NPR reported.

Walker is just one example of a legacy of artists and influencers who’ve adopted dinner party curation as their preferred method of connecting with other black artists. Smith, the social entrepreneur, followed right in Walker’s footsteps. She grew up on 150th Street in Harlem and counts her mother, barmaids in 1970s Harlem and Madam C.J. Walker as her inspiration.

“I saw the way the barmaids made everyone feel welcome,” she said. “They knew everybody’s drinks, they connected people with each other. And I see that in myself. I’m playful, I have an easy banter, I’m connecting the dots. I’m a modern-day upscale barmaid.”

Smith had multiple motives in starting her dinner parties. She wanted to connect and inspire, but also to monetize her relationships and skillset, particularly for black artists who had limited access to luxury brands.

“I can do good for others while doing good for myself,” Smith said. “We all want to give back. We all want to share the wealth. We all want to make sure that the people that come behind us are richer — and not just financially, but also culturally.”

Of course, contemporary dinner parties aren’t just happening in New York. Nichelle Tramble Spellman and her husband, Malcolm, are accomplished writer-producers in Los Angeles and host dinner parties about six times a year for their friends, a squadron of black artists and professionals in Hollywood. In a community that can be isolating, Tramble Spellman creates a space where friends and peers can relate to one another in an intimate, festive environment.

“Hosting started informally with girlfriend gatherings,” Tramble Spellman, creator and writer of the upcoming Apple TV series “Are You Sleeping,” told NBCBLK. “My mother-in-law is a master of the great dinner party, and I watched her in action for years.”

Ten years ago, Tramble Spellman started hosting friends for dessert parties. She hosted her “biggest dinner yet” for Christmas 2018.

Nichelle Tramble Spellman's Christmas party in 2018.Courtesy of Nichelle Tramble Spellman

“We put up a tent in the backyard, a long table like at a wedding and Christmas lights strung throughout the tent,” she said. “It was so pretty. We piped in heat and had to throw blankets on the back of every chair just in case it got chilly.”

However, 30 minutes before the party was set to begin, a windstorm ttied to steal her joy.

“The tent was rocking like it was going to collapse,” she said. “I call that the day a hostess got her wings.”

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